A key part of the soulmate relationship is each half in a state of full allowance of the other; desiring and encouraging expression in the other.
Soulmate love involves the longing of each half, for the other to have full and free expression.
In essence, this is a supportive, loving and deeply felt heart desire for the other to be themselves.
Excerpt from a message from Rachael & Timothy, spirit guides
Received 5th October, 2018
On a recent visit to Kyabra, Eloisa reminding of a channeling I had received and shared with her back in 2011.
I had forgotten the channeling and lost my copy so she kindly sent it back to me.
What I love about this message is the way that Rachael and Tim touch on all of the basic principles of The Way – opening our hearts to God’s feelings for us, connecting to our emotional selves, engaging God in an active relationship. They also highlight how living in fear shuts down the natural process of exploring desire and finding our true selves.
Dearest sister, please make more time to sit and spend with us. You avoid yourself so constantly and don’t allow yourself to experience the joy of connecting with and discovering yourself. There is much passion, desire and creativity within you that is, as yet, untapped and undiscovered by yourself.
Focus on your passions and desires more consistently – challenge the fears you have about the judgement of others. In other words let yourself:
At present you begin at 3. i.e.– identifying your fears and grief and anger at the worlds’ possible response to you and your dreams, or your own potential failings
This limits 2. – i.e. it often stops you even beginning to do what you desire,
and then consequently;
1. Is never fully explored because you ‘begin at the end’ of the process.
You pre-empt any possible joy and creativity because you are so focussed on your fear of the third step of the process. Because you view yourself still as this flawed, first century girl, you believe all will end in failure and pain.
This is truly a state of self-reliance. You allow no space for God to help you grow in this process, and you ignore the provisions that God makes through His Loving Laws, in order to assist and protect those who embrace themselves and their desires most fully.
Trust God more in your day-to-day life.
Keep in mind and heart the process you are engaged in – which is to embrace yourself and to heal any injury which prevents the pure expression of self. This is not a passive process, nor is it one that you can be perfect in (or present yourself as perfect in) immediately.
You still believe that your imperfections are proof of your unworthiness and this is a self-defeating injury.
God’s beliefs are different to yours – you must be willing to open your heart to His Feelings for you. This is the fastest way to embrace this process and to trust its efficacy.
Do not believe dear sister that from your state of error you can accurately conceive the wonderful possibilities that are available to you and all of humanity. Be willing to shed your reliance on what you think you know, in favour of a spirit of trust and exploration. You can stay grounded, but let that be a grounding in the goodness that God does demonstrate – not in the hatefulness of mankind who have strayed so far from Him.
We wish you a day full of exploration and discovery.
We would be happy to return to you and discuss the principles of teaching and learning at a later time. With so much love and affection,
Your guides,
Rachael and Timothy.
I’m sure these wise folk had much more to say but what I was able to receive I found to be very applicable and valuable in that its the kind of advice you can apply to everyday life, even if you don’t consider yourself to be a medium.
You can also now watch the full talk on youtube. The first part is below.
Have a beautiful Monday everyone,
With love,
Mary
Drink plenty of plain (non-carbonated, non-flavoured) water, at least three litres a day.
Feel your emotions and where they are stored in the body. We are close to you but can’t communicate with you as well when you are ‘in your head’ (dominated by your intellect) or more attuned to the feelings of others.
We recommend daily gentle exercise – heavy exertion can detune you as much as inactivity. Focus on movement while you stay connected to your breathe and physical sensations.
Also, take time each day to be still while you tune into your breath, your feelings and the sensations in your body.
We communicate with your spirit body and not always with words or thoughts – the more hydrated you are, the more in connection with your physical body’s sensations you are, the more sensitive you will become to your spirit body’s feelings.
Our focus is on your best welfare and growth; many of you do not share our focus! So this impedes our communication. By disengaging from pleasing others and beginning to make growth your priority we will find guiding you so much easier.
While it is true that many of us are now completely free from error, we have each lived a life on earth and we understand the trials and difficulties you face in your growth towards your true self and towards God. When you regard us as ‘pure’, you often feel we have always been chaste and uncorrupted. Many of you have the feeling or belief that we cannot directly relate to your experience or understand you. We wish to tell you that we do, many times we are more aware of exactly what you face than you are, and usually we have face similar things during our own life on earth. This is why we have become your guide.
Notes Along The Way 